Night one is reconnaissance. Night two is for trying the thing you actually want. Say it in the cab, not after he has already chosen the plot.
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Eleven pm is not a personality. Ask what he wants to do, then decide. If the answer is just come over, try one condition. Lights, time, or a condom plan.
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You do not owe him breakfast. You do owe yourself water, a minute, and a sentence. Try asking for a hand on your back. Watch who turns into furniture.
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The silent after is louder with someone you met at nine. Try sitting up, dressing, and watching whether he notices. Leaving can be the sexiest boundary in the building.