He is warm in messages, thin in person, gone by morning. Do not reward half presence with full access. Try matching his effort. Lukewarm men get lukewarm nights.
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When it is working, freeze the scene. Stay. That. Do not get creative. The urge to improve a good minute is how orgasms escape out the window.
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He wrote a novel with his thumbs then whispered like a vicar. Try naming one thing from the chat out loud. If he flinches, that is data. Leave the rest.
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You do not need a closing speech. Bad pace, no listen, phone out after. Delete is a complete sentence. Optimism is for opening the app, not for coaching him.
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Another round is not desperation. It is a body that has not finished with the evening. Ask. Or take it. Neediness is apology. Appetite is just appetite.