Contact
Use the form. That is the front door. Email still exists if the form sulks.
I read what comes through. I do not live in the inbox.
What to use it for
- A question about a post
- Press, interviews, or collaboration that is actually a collaboration
- A factual correction
- Something short enough that a person with a job and a kettle can answer it
What not to send
I am not a clinic, a solicitor, or your group chat with a domain name. Do not send:
- A novel about a man who is “complicated”
- Medical questions
- Legal questions
- Other people’s names, numbers, photos, or screenshots they did not agree to share
- Anything involving anyone under 18
- Demands that I diagnose a situationship from three messages and a vibe
If the night went badly in a way that needs a professional, use a professional. This form is for the Site, not emergency aftercare.
How I reply
Sometimes quickly. Sometimes after I have finished being a person. If I do not reply, it is not a puzzle. It is volume.
Keep it short. Put the point in the first line. If you are writing about a post, name the post.
